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Comments on: My very first political hate mail! https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/ An archived blog about education, language, peace, and other fine things Mon, 26 Jun 2023 19:09:19 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.1 By: Shoshana London Sappir https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-185 Wed, 16 Feb 2011 08:28:00 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-185 In reply to Maurice.

Maurice, I really don’t know about the law, but can you go around cursing and threatening other people with impunity?

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By: Michael Sappir https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-182 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 19:21:09 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-182 In reply to Shunra.

Clearly. To get some kind of chance of dialog, I posted a new reply on that article, addressing my pen-pal and saying they’re wrong about me and I’d love to talk with them.
They won’t likely read it, but if they do they will be pretty damn confused!

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By: Michael Sappir https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-181 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 19:18:40 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-181 I actually don’t care if it’s legal or not. It wouldn’t cross my mind for a second to try to retaliate in a court. This individual would not, I imagine, “better their ways” after being told off by a judge. They’d just have even more contempt for the court and for “lefties”.

There’s no use getting worked up over something like this. (I did at first, for a few minutes.) This person is clearly acting on fear and anger (which is a defense mechanism against fear.) They are driven to confrontation, perhaps out of despair, which is a perfectly reasonable reaction to what’s going on in Israel/Palestine. I’m driven by despair as well, some of the time, when it comes to Israel (I’d be posting more about linguistics and education if I weren’t feeling that despair).
But when a person acts out their hate and anger there’s nothing to gain by responding with further confrontation, hate or anger. That gives them control of the situation. Responding with an attempt at dialog and at least some measure of compassion takes control away from them and can potentially do something (however little) for that fear/hate.

I’ve been thinking lately that if we are ever to achieve peace, justice and normality, at some point we have to start engaging the Israeli mainstream and right wing. These are groups whose political outlook is dominated by fear, and often hate. Israel’s politics of rapid response to fear and hate — which have been there longer than the state — have not gotten us anywhere so far, and as hard as it is, we have to unilaterally disengage from them.

P.S.
For unspectacular reasons, I hardly slept last night. This is my excuse for being so contemplative, as well as for anything illogical or silly I may have written today.

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By: Maurice https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-180 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 18:03:46 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-180 In reply to Shoshana.

Hi Shoshana,

It’s ugly, it’s revealing, but it’s not against the law. And I think Pete is right.

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By: Maurice https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-179 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 18:02:12 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-179 In reply to Shunra.

Hi Dena (it must be you), nice to see you here :-))

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By: Shunra https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-178 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 17:33:54 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-178 In reply to Shoshana.

Hear-hear.

Neither the style nor the rapid disappearance make it sound like you are being invited into dialog. More like you’re being ambushed.

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By: Shoshana https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-177 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 14:37:40 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-177 I don’t think trying to engage these people is correct procedure. I think you’re supposed to try to engage the police.

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By: Tweets that mention My very first political hate mail! | Did you learn anything? -- Topsy.com https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-176 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 13:39:39 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-176 […] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Itamar Sha'altiel and Michael Sappir, Tsafrir Bashan. Tsafrir Bashan said: RT @msappir: [New post] My very first political hate mail! http://goo.gl/fb/bYKjC […]

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By: Michael Sappir https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-175 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 13:32:33 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-175 In reply to Pete.

Spanish. When I was trying to learn Danish it was Danish… It’s a surprisingly useful tool for language learning… I’ll never forget how to say “share” or “like” in either language. :)

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By: Pete https://www.didyoulearnanything.net/blog/2011/02/15/my-very-first-political-hate-mail/#comment-174 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 13:20:29 +0000 http://www.didyoulearnanything.net/?p=1340#comment-174 And another thing…. what language do you use FB in?? You crazy linguists…. hehe.

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